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Overview
An ear infection is a swelling or infection in the middle ear, the small space behind the eardrum. It often happens after a cold and can cause pain, fluid build-up, and sometimes a fever. When a child lies down for the night, fluid in the ear can shift and press on the eardrum, making the pain more noticeable, which is why many children wake up early with ear discomfort.
Key facts
- Ear infections are very common, especially in children younger than 3 years old.
- Most ear infections clear up on their own within a few days, without antibiotics.
- Pain relief and keeping the child comfortable are the most important steps you can take at home.
- If your child is in severe pain, has a very high fever, or seems very unwell, seek medical care urgently.
Yes, ear infections are one of the most common childhood illnesses. Around 8 out of 10 children will have at least one ear infection by the time they turn 3 years old.
Ear infections most often affect babies and children between 6 months and 2 years of age. Children who go to daycare, who use a pacifier, who are bottle-fed while lying down, or who are exposed to tobacco smoke have a higher risk.
Symptoms
- Stiff neck and a high fever
- Seizure or convulsions
- Very difficulty waking up or extreme drowsiness
- Swelling, redness, or tenderness behind the ear
- A bulging soft spot on a baby's head
- Signs of severe dehydration (dry mouth, no urination, sunken eyes)
- ⚠A fever that is very high (for example, above 39.5°C / 103°F)
- ⚠Severe ear pain that does not get better with over-the-counter pain relief (as recommended by a pharmacist or doctor)
- ⚠Discharge that is yellow, green, or bloody from the ear
- ⚠Symptoms that get worse instead of better after 48 hours
- ⚠You cannot easily see your child's usual doctor and worry about their symptoms
Common symptoms
- Ear pain, especially when lying down
- Rubbing or tugging at the ear
- Trouble hearing or responding to sounds
- Fever (often mild)
- Fluid draining from the ear (if the eardrum has burst)
- Fussiness or irritability
- Trouble sleeping
Symptoms in children
- Crying more than usual, especially at night and in the early morning
- Pulling or scratching at the ear
- Poor feeding or loss of appetite
- Waking up frequently during the night
- Balance problems or clumsiness
- Not reacting to soft sounds
Causes
Main causes
- A viral cold or respiratory infection that spreads to the middle ear
- Bacterial infection that grows in fluid trapped in the middle ear
- A blocked Eustachian tube (the small tube that connects the ear to the throat) due to swelling from a cold, allergy, or irritant
- The anatomy of a child's Eustachian tube (shorter and more horizontal than an adult's), making it easier for fluid to get trapped
Risk factors
- Being a baby or young child (6 months to 2 years)
- Being in group care such as a daycare or nursery
- Bottle-feeding while lying down
- Using a dummy or pacifier after the age of 6 months
- Exposure to cigarette smoke or air pollution
- Not being breastfed (breastfeeding provides some protection)
- Having a weak immune system or certain underlying conditions like cleft palate
When to see a doctor
See a doctor urgently if:
- If your child is under 3 months old with a temperature or any sign of ear infection
- If your child has a very high fever
- If your child is in severe pain or seems unusually unwell
- If there is swelling or redness behind the ear
- If fluid that looks like pus or blood is coming from the ear
- If symptoms are not improving after 48 hours or are getting worse
Book a routine appointment if:
- If you think your child has an ear infection and symptoms are mild, you can make a non-urgent appointment to get the ear checked and receive advice on managing pain.
- If your child has repeated ear infections (for example, three or more in six months), it is worth seeing a healthcare professional for a hearing assessment and preventive advice.
Diagnosis
A doctor or nurse will ask about your child's symptoms and gently look inside the ears using a small lighted instrument called an otoscope. This does not hurt. They will look for a red or bulging eardrum, fluid behind the eardrum, or a small perforation.
Tests that may be done
- A pneumatic otoscope, which blows a tiny puff of air to see if the eardrum moves freely (reduced movement suggests fluid behind the eardrum)
- A hearing test, if ear infections are frequent or fluid persists for several months
- A tympanometer, which measures how well the eardrum moves and can detect fluid buildup
What to expect at your appointment
The examination takes only a few minutes. No special preparation is needed. The doctor may explain what they see and recommend a plan. Sometimes they will simply suggest pain relief and review. They may want to see your child again in a month or two if fluid buildup is a concern.
Treatment
Treatment for an ear infection depends on the child's age, the severity of symptoms, and whether it is likely to be bacterial or viral. Most infections are viral and get better on their own. The focus is on relieving pain and monitoring. Antibiotics are only used for certain cases, such as severe symptoms, high fever, or a child under 6 months.
Self-care at home
- Give your child pain-relief medicine that your pharmacist or doctor recommends for their age and weight. Always follow the dosing instructions carefully.
- Place a warm, not hot, cloth or gently warmed compress over the affected ear for a few minutes to help soothe pain.
- Encourage your child to rest in an upright position rather than lying flat, as this can help the ear drain.
- Offer plenty of fluids, such as water or warm clear soup, to help with swallowing and fluid balance.
- Keep your child at home from daycare or school until they are comfortable and feeling better, usually for one to two days.
Medical treatments
A doctor may prescribe an antibiotic if the infection is severe, if your child is very young, or if the infection does not improve after a few days. It is important to finish the full course exactly as prescribed, even if your child feels better. Doctors also sometimes recommend regular pain relief for a few days. In certain situations, especially with recurrent infections, a specialist might suggest surgical options like ear tubes (ventilation tubes).
When is surgery considered?
Surgery is not a first-choice treatment. But if ear infections keep coming back (for example, more than three in six months) or if fluid builds up and affects hearing, an ear, nose, and throat (ENT) specialist may recommend placing small tubes (grommets) into the eardrum. This is a quick procedure, and the tubes help air enter the middle ear and fluid drain away.
Living with this condition
During an ear infection, your child may be clingy, irritable, and sleep poorly. Give them extra cuddles and comfort. Try to keep them calm and distracted with quiet activities. Pain often improves within a day or two. Keep a regular schedule of pain relief as advised and monitor for any new symptoms.
Lifestyle tips
- Avoid exposing your child to cigarette smoke or any kind of smoke.
- Continue breastfeeding if you are breastfeeding, as it can lower the risk of future infections.
- If you bottle-feed, hold your baby upright rather than leaving them to drink lying down.
- Limit pacifier use after six months if your child is prone to ear infections.
- Make sure your child gets enough rest and fluids during an infection.
Diet and exercise
There is no special diet for ear infections, but eating a balanced diet supports the immune system. During an infection, soft foods and plenty of fluids may be easier if swallowing is painful. Let your child rest and go back to normal activities gradually as they feel better.
Mental health and emotional wellbeing
Seeing your child in pain can be distressing, and frequent ear infections can disrupt the whole family's sleep and daily routine. It is normal to feel tired, anxious, or stressed. Remember that most ear infections are short-lived, and your calm presence helps your child feel safe. Talk to your partner, family, or a health professional if you are feeling overwhelmed.
Prevention
You cannot always prevent ear infections, but you can reduce the risk by avoiding tobacco smoke, breastfeeding when possible, feeding your baby upright, and keeping up with vaccinations. Frequent handwashing can also reduce the spread of colds that often lead to ear infections.
Vaccines
Keep your child up to date with their routine childhood vaccines, including the pneumococcal vaccine and the flu vaccine. These help prevent some infections that can cause ear infections.
Screening programmes
There is no routine screening for ear infections. However, if your child has frequent or long-lasting fluid in the middle ear, a hearing test may be recommended to check for any impact on speech and language development.
Complications
If left untreated
- Temporary hearing loss due to fluid buildup, which usually gets better as the infection clears
- In rare cases, the eardrum may develop a small hole that does not heal, leading to long-term hearing problems
- Spread of infection to the mastoid bone behind the ear (mastoiditis), which is very rare and needs urgent medical care
- Very rarely, infection can spread to the brain or surrounding tissues, which is a medical emergency
Long-term outlook
The outlook for children with ear infections is very positive. Most children get better completely within a couple of days to a week, even without antibiotics. Even recurring infections often become less frequent as children grow and their Eustachian tubes become longer and more angled. If you have any concerns, your healthcare team can help you manage the condition and prevent complications.
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Last updated: July 31, 2026
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