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Overview

An ear infection (otitis media) happens when the space behind the eardrum becomes inflamed and filled with fluid. When your child lies down, this fluid can press more heavily on the eardrum, making the pain feel sharper and worse. That's why it often hurts more at bedtime or during a nap.

Yes. Ear infections are one of the most common reasons parents take a child to a healthcare provider. More than 8 out of 10 children will have at least one ear infection by age 3.

It most often affects children under 5, especially babies and toddlers between 6 and 24 months. Their eustachian tubes are shorter and more horizontal, which makes them easier for fluid and germs to block.

Symptoms

Common symptoms

• Ear pain or discomfort
• Mild fever
• Fussiness or irritability
• Difficulty sleeping
• Reduced hearing or muffled sounds

Symptoms in children

• Tugging or pulling at the ear
• Crying that worsens when lying down
• Trouble settling at bedtime or frequent night waking
• Loss of appetite or poor feeding
• Fluid or discharge from the ear (not always)

Causes

Main causes

• A viral infection such as a cold that causes swelling of the eustachian tube
• Bacteria growing in fluid that becomes trapped in the middle ear
• A blocked eustachian tube due to allergies or enlarged adenoids

Risk factors

• Age: children under 5 are most at risk
• Bottle feeding while lying flat
• Using a pacifier beyond 6 months
• Exposure to tobacco smoke
• Attending a large daycare setting
• Seasonal respiratory infections

When to see a doctor

See a doctor urgently if:

• Your child is under 3 months old and you suspect an ear infection
• Your child has a very high fever along with severe ear pain
• You notice foul-smelling discharge with blood or pus from the ear
• Your child seems lethargic, confused, or very weak

Book a routine appointment if:

• Symptoms continue for more than 2–3 days
• Your child has had three or more ear infections in six months
• You notice your child is not hearing well after a cold

Diagnosis

A doctor or nurse will gently look inside your child's ear using a small tool with a light called an otoscope. They will check for redness, fluid, a bulging eardrum, or signs of a hole in the eardrum.

Tests that may be done

• Pneumatic otoscope: puffs a small puff of air to see if the eardrum moves normally
• Tympanometry: a device that measures how well the eardrum responds to pressure
• Hearing test: if ear infections keep coming back or fluid stays in the ear

What to expect at your appointment

The examination is quick and usually painless. The doctor may need to remove some earwax for a better view. After the exam, they will discuss the findings with you and explain any treatment recommendations.

Treatment

Treatment depends on your child's age, the likely cause, and how severe the symptoms are. If the infection is mild and probably viral, the healthcare provider may suggest watching and waiting. If it looks bacterial, they may prescribe antibiotics. In the meantime, you can do a lot at home to help your child feel more comfortable.

Self-care at home

• Apply a warm (not hot) compress over the ear for short periods
• Keep your child upright rather than lying flat during waking hours
• Give extra fluids to help thin fluid and ease pressure
• Encourage rest and calm activities until pain settles

Medical treatments

A healthcare provider may prescribe a course of antibiotics if the infection is bacterial. Always follow the prescribed dose and finish the entire course as directed. Over-the-counter pain relief suitable for your child's age can help with pain and fever — check with your pharmacist or GP about the right product and dose. Never give aspirin to a child.

When is surgery considered?

If ear infections keep coming back or fluid stays in the ear for several months, a specialist may suggest ventilation tubes, also called grommets. These tiny tubes help drain fluid and equalize pressure in the middle ear, which can reduce the number of infections and improve hearing.

Living with this condition

To help your child rest, raise the head of the cot mattress slightly (if safe) or use pillows if your child is old enough. Offer cuddles, gentle music, or a favourite book to distract from the pain. Sometimes holding your child upright in your arms helps them settle too.

Lifestyle tips

• Avoid lying your child down flat while bottle feeding — hold them upright
• Keep ears dry during bath time if there is any drainage
• Avoid exposure to smoke and air pollution at home
• Encourage regular handwashing to reduce colds

Diet and exercise

Keep meals normal and offer soft foods if chewing seems uncomfortable. Extra fluids like water, milk, or soup can help. Your child can play lightly once they feel better, but avoid very vigorous activity until pain and fever settle.

Mental health and emotional wellbeing

Ear pain can disrupt sleep and make children cranky, which can be exhausting for parents and caregivers. It's normal to feel tired or stressed. Remember to take breaks when you can and ask family or friends for help with other children or daily chores.

Prevention

Not all ear infections can be prevented, but you can reduce the risk by breastfeeding if possible, avoiding smoke exposure, not bottle-feeding your baby lying flat, and ensuring regular handwashing in the family.

Vaccines

Keep your child's routine childhood vaccinations up to date, including the pneumococcal vaccine and the seasonal flu vaccine if offered. These help prevent infections that can lead to ear infections.

Screening programmes

There is no routine screening test for ear infections in healthy children, but regular hearing and development check-ups can help identify any problems early.

Complications

If left untreated

• Temporary hearing loss that may affect speech development if it lasts a long time
• A hole in the eardrum (perforation) that usually heals on its own, but sometimes needs treatment
• Spread of infection to the bone behind the ear (mastoiditis), which is rare but serious

Long-term outlook

With the right care, nearly all children recover completely from ear infections without lasting problems. Even when fluid stays in the ear, it usually clears within a few months. Your child's doctor can help you manage symptoms and refer you to a specialist if needed. Stay hopeful — most children outgrow this phase.

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