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Overview

Endometriosis is a condition where tissue similar to the lining of the womb grows outside the womb, such as on the ovaries, fallopian tubes, or the tissue lining the pelvis. This misplaced tissue can cause inflammation, scarring, and pain, especially around your period.

Yes, endometriosis is quite common. It affects roughly 1 in 10 women and girls of reproductive age, though the true number may be higher because many people do not get a prompt diagnosis.

Endometriosis can affect anyone who has a womb, usually between their first period and menopause. Symptoms may continue after menopause, but they often become milder.

Symptoms

Common symptoms

• Very painful periods that stop you from doing normal activities
• Pelvic pain that lasts throughout the month
• Pain during or after sex
• Pain when using the toilet, especially during periods
• Heavy or irregular bleeding
• Feeling sick, tired, or bloated

Symptoms in children

• Period pain bad enough to cause missed school days
• Pelvic pain that isn't fully explained by other causes
• Pain that gets worse over time

Symptoms in older adults

• Long-standing pelvic or back pain that may have been present since younger years
• Pain that continues around the time of menopause, sometimes easing after menopause
• Bowel or bladder symptoms that seem to happen more around periods

Causes

Main causes

• The exact cause is unknown, but one theory is that menstrual blood flows backwards through the fallopian tubes and attaches to other organs.
• Immune system problems may make it harder for the body to clear misplaced tissue.
• Genetics may play a role — endometriosis sometimes runs in families.

Risk factors

• Starting your period at an early age
• Short menstrual cycles (shorter than 27 days)
• Heavy or long periods
• A family history of endometriosis
• Never having given birth

When to see a doctor

See a doctor urgently if:

• If you have sudden, severe pelvic pain, call your local emergency number immediately.
• If you have heavy bleeding with dizziness or fainting, seek urgent care.
• If you have pelvic pain with fever or vomiting, see a doctor the same day.

Book a routine appointment if:

• If you have period pain that regularly stops you from going to school, work, or doing your normal activities.
• If you have pain during or after sex, or bowel or bladder pain that comes and goes with your periods.
• If you've been trying to get pregnant for a year or more without success.

Diagnosis

Doctors usually start by asking about your symptoms and medical history. They may do a pelvic exam and suggest an ultrasound scan. The only way to definitively confirm endometriosis is with a laparoscopy — a small operation where a camera is inserted through tiny cuts in the belly. However, many people are diagnosed based on symptoms and scans, especially if treatment helps.

Tests that may be done

• Pelvic exam — a doctor checks your womb, ovaries, and pelvis for tender areas or cysts.
• Ultrasound scan — uses sound waves to see images of your pelvic organs. It can find ovarian cysts called endometriomas, though it can't see smaller patches of endometriosis.
• Laparoscopy — a keyhole surgery that lets the doctor see endometrial tissue directly and, if needed, take a small sample (biopsy).
• MRI scan — sometimes used to get more details, especially for deeper endometriosis.

What to expect at your appointment

The path to a diagnosis can take time. You may be referred to a women's health specialist (gynaecologist). The doctor may ask you to track your pain in a diary. You do not need to prove your pain — if something feels wrong, say so clearly. Even if tests come back normal, your pain is real and deserves attention.

Treatment

There is no cure for endometriosis, but treatment can ease pain, shrink misplaced tissue, and improve quality of life. Your treatment plan depends on your symptoms, your plans for pregnancy, and your preferences. Options include pain management, hormone treatments, surgery, or a combination of these.

Self-care at home

• Apply heat, like a hot water bottle or warm bath, to relax muscles and ease cramping
• Do gentle exercise, such as walking, stretching, or yoga, to improve blood flow and reduce stress
• Rest when you need to — don't be afraid to adjust your schedule on painful days
• Try relaxation methods like deep breathing, meditation, or journaling
• Ask your pharmacist about over-the-counter pain relief and whether it is safe for you

Medical treatments

Medical treatments for endometriosis include hormonal contraceptives, such as the pill, patch, or implant, which can lighten or stop periods. Other hormone therapies pause ovulation to reduce tissue growth. Pain-relieving medicines can also help, but you should always ask your doctor which options are safe and suitable for you. No single medicine works for everyone, so it may take time to find the right approach.

When is surgery considered?

If pain is severe and other treatments haven't helped, a surgeon may suggest laparoscopic surgery. The surgeon can remove or destroy patches of endometriosis tissue. This can reduce pain and improve fertility for some people. Surgery isn't a cure — symptoms can return, so it's usually combined with other long-term management strategies.

Living with this condition

Living with endometriosis can be exhausting and unpredictable. Learning to pace yourself helps — plan rest on bad days, keep a pain diary to notice triggers, and give yourself permission to say no to activities when pain is high.

Lifestyle tips

• Get regular, gentle exercise — it lowers stress and helps your body manage pain
• Build a sleep routine that helps you rest well, since poor sleep can make pain feel worse
• Practice stress management: meditation, breathing exercises, journaling, or talking to someone you trust
• Wear loose, comfortable clothing on painful days
• Consider heat therapy or a TENS machine — ask your physiotherapist or pharmacist for advice

Diet and exercise

There is no special diet that fixes endometriosis, but eating a varied, balanced diet supports your body. Some people feel better when they cut back on caffeine, alcohol, or very fatty foods. Eating plenty of fruits, vegetables, whole grains, and fish may help reduce inflammation over time. Keep moving — even a short daily walk can make a difference.

Mental health and emotional wellbeing

Chronic pain can affect your mood, self-esteem, and relationships. It's common to feel frustrated, anxious, or depressed. Your pain is real, and your feelings are valid. If you're struggling, tell your healthcare team — they can connect you with counselling or mental health support. If you're having thoughts of self-harm or an emotional crisis, reach out to a local crisis helpline or go to an emergency department right away.

Prevention

Endometriosis cannot be prevented, but early recognition and good management can reduce pain and protect your quality of life. Listen to your body and seek help early if something feels wrong.

Vaccines

There is no vaccine that prevents endometriosis.

Screening programmes

There is no standard screening test for endometriosis in people without symptoms. The best way to detect it is to talk to a healthcare professional about any pelvic pain or period problems you are experiencing.

Complications

If left untreated

• Chronic pain that affects work, school, and relationships
• Difficulty becoming pregnant — endometriosis can affect the ovaries, fallopian tubes, and womb lining
• Ovarian cysts (endometriomas) that may cause pain or rupture
• Scar tissue (adhesions) inside the pelvis, which can cause organs to stick together

Long-term outlook

Although endometriosis is a lifelong condition for many, the outlook is hopeful. With the right support, most people find significant relief from treatment — whether it's medicine, surgery, or a combination. Many go on to live full, active lives, and if you want children, treatments can help with fertility. Your healthcare team is there to work with you, so don't lose hope.

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